The Calculations of Love

"There is someone,somewhere made for everyone of us,by the almighty". Sounds quite interesting.Right? This has been that one special magical sentence that I am sure,most of us have either given to,or received from someone in life.This sentence has everything that pleases almost all varieties of people surrounding us.Love birds can instantly relate the sentence to 'whoever' they want to be with in life,in no second.Unfortunate lovers find it immensely encouraging.For singles,it's just another inspiring bunch of words that convinces them to wait with their 'single' tag,till something extraordinary changes their life!And,it is almost a life philosophy for people who are true admirer of  the 'arrange marriage stuffs'. Hope is indeed a powerful word that teaches you to live your life against all odds.

However hope,to some extent, also gives way to selfishness.With the hope of getting the one made for us, we quite often involve ourselves into the tricky calculations.Yes "The Calculation of Love!". Is he that good looking? Does he have a good personality? Will he be caring throughout the relationship?Does he have a good height? Would he treat me well?Will this interfere with my career? Wouldn't she be more demanding? Wouldn't she be too possessive? Would she be too clingy? What if he/she changes over the time?

And my personal favorite.."Is he rich enough?"

So what happens when we get too involved a little more,in asking such questions than  to be answering them.The phenomenon is called 'Getting into Relationship(s)'. W e judge! We try!We even retry! And then we quite often come across some of the golden and equally de-glorifying words of the modern age  'Patch ups' and 'Break ups'. True!  The words give a feeling as if we are constructing a building and demolishing the same as per the required designs and the architectures.True love is when you are more concerned about the 'home' that resides in the building and which can never be demolished or even planned. The concept of love is almost extinct. 'Relationships' are the new obsession which adds to the 'glamour of life' but not to the 'essence of life'.

At times,when we are too busy planning and calculating to 'Get into relationship(s)', we deny the chance for what could have been much more than a mere relationship. I call that chance 'Love'. Life does not give us too many chances,quite often.And if you are smart enough to recognise that it is real, you should be smart enough to fight for it and never let it go. So dont ever let the 'love' of ur life pass by you, when the winds of 'relationships' tend to blow it away.

But.... Love, in itself, is meant to brave the storms! Isn't it true? :)